The part of the chart where the Lilith zone is located is the part of your personality where there is no personal and/or cultural defence system: This is why the Lilith position is so hard to take and ends up in denial. Having no defence system is quite traumatizing and very hard to deal with.
The way to deal with it is to go through the motions: The emotions (Moon) as well as the anger (Mars) you feel because it also is the one point in your chart/personality where you are completely pure and have no agenda at all: at the position of your Lilith Zone you are completely open and without any shape or form; you just are.
Strangely enough it also is the part of your personality where you are more human than anywhere in your chart: Lilith in essence is a paradox. But she definitely isn’t a demon or an angel. She just is.
A man who had a full understanding of how this worked is Bruce Lee. He was on my list of people I wanted to investigate deeper for 34 years already: because I’ve had heard Bruce healed a severe injury at the base of his spine in the central nerve, which made him physically paralyzed for quite some time.
When I finally had the time: He blew my mind away and gave me the most clear and unexpected insight in how Lilith truly can work out as well as what she represents as a force of nature through a human being: if you have the strength to complete the process. He also happened to have a Lilith Zone of 12 full degrees. Which starts in Aries; 4th house and ends in Taurus; 5th house.
The best advice if it comes to how to deal with Lilith problems I have ever heard definitely comes from Bruce.
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